In June, Melyssa introduced #NectarChat, a biweekly Twitter chat for bloggers and entrepreneurs. So far, #NectarChat has discussed a vast array of topics ranging from “branding your blog and business” to “creating an engaged audience.”

I’m going to be totally honest with you, #NectarChat was the first Twitter chat I’ve ever participated in, and I was nervous and overwhelmed. Participating in your first Twitter chat can feel a lot like being the new kid in school. People are rushing by you super fast and you’re just standing there watching everyone pass, trying to get a word in. Now that I’ve gotten over my first day of school, *ahem* first Twitter chat jitters, I’ve found a serious appreciation for chats and the opportunity they provide for me to grow and interact with other creatives.
If you’ve never participated in a Twitter chat, but yearn to check ’em out, or even if you’re a seasoned Twitter chat participant, here are a few tips you might find helpful when you’re joining in on chats. I’m also sharing some of my absolute favorite Twitter chats for bloggers and creative entrepreneurs. Woo!
1. Prepare your introduction.
If you’re participating in a Twitter chat, chances are there will be tons of other bloggers and entrepreneurs joining in on the same conversation. Don’t get lost in a sea of “Hi, my name is Susie and I write a DIY blog.” Jazz it up and be more specific! This is your elevator pitch, if you will, and you want to make a lasting impression. There are plenty of DIY bloggers out there, so focus on what makes you unique. (This is a great tutorial to get started!)
Try introducing yourself by saying “Hi, my name is Susie and I write a DIY blog called I Like to DIY, where I chat all about my love for do-it-yourself projects and encourage people to get out there and expand their creativity through crafts.” I started keeping my little snippet in a note on my phone so I can copy and paste it when the chat first starts. This takes the guessing game out of how to introduce myself, and it frees up a few seconds to say hello and chat with other participants before the chat gets going.
Related: A Better Way to Introduce Yourself as a Freelancer or Blogger
2. Be present and try to engage on a deeper level with at least one or two other participants.
The first time I tried to participate in a Twitter chat, I made the mistake of trying to multitask. That was seriously the worst idea because Twitter chats move fast. Make it a point to participate in chats when you can be fully present and you aren’t working on 20 other things or have a ton of distractions around you.
Consider this chat your time to sit back and catch up with new and old friends! Sit somewhere peaceful, have yourself a drink, maybe even light a candle, whatever helps you focus. When you take the time to be present, you’ll realize that there are tons of people you really click and connect with. Don’t be afraid to respond to people’s tweets, even if you’ve never talked to them before. Twitter chats are ALL about making connections with new people — it’s not weird, promise.
If you find someone who catches your attention, follow them and follow up with them after the chat. Aside from the serious dose of knowledge you can gain from Twitter chats, you can also gain potential friends, readers, clients, and customers.
Related: 6 Ways to Use Twitter to Grow Your Blog or Business

3. Don’t underestimate your own knowledge.
This may be a general life rule, but it’s important — you have so much more to offer than you give yourself credit for! Don’t be shy if you have the answer to someone else’s question or you can further elaborate on someone else’s answer. Maybe you’ve read a book on the chat topic, or have a post on your own site that relates to it. Share what you know! If other participants feel like they’re learning from you, they may be more intrigued to checkout your site and products.
Also, try to flush out the idea that your tips or experiences are too “basic” to share and that everyone already knows what you want to say. Chances are, that’s not true and there would be several people who could benefit from your particular expertise.
4. Remember to use the hashtag.
This might seem like an obvious one, but always remember to use the hashtag that goes with the chat you’re participating in. I’ve written a few Tweets and sat wondering why no one was interacting, only to realize 5 minutes later that I never used the hashtag. Those 5 minutes are really valuable, especially during a 30-60 minute chat. Make sure you’re being heard and you’re using your time wisely by adding those little words that will connect you with everyone else!
To make things easy, just copy the hashtag so it’s easy to paste at the end of your tweets.
5. Use Tweetdeck to keep yourself afloat.

A great source to keep yourself organized and ensure you won’t forget something as simple as using the hashtag is TweetDeck. This site eliminates the grunt work out of having to search for the chat you’re participating in. The site is divided into different, customizable columns of your choosing.
During Twitter chats, I recommend setting up at least two columns: The “hashtag”, and “@ mentions.”
The hashtag column, like the middle #NectarChat column in the image above, shows all live tweets containing “#NectarChat.” This is really useful, since it will automatically filter out all other tweets and only show you the ones being shared by the Twitter chat participants.
The “@ Mentions” column will show you all of the tweets where someone mentioned your handle. This is useful because Twitter chats can move quickly, so you may not always see when someone asks you a question or responds to your tweets. Being able to look in the “@ Mentions” section will show you every time you’re mentioned.
Overall, TweetDeck is super handy because it shows you who is sharing what, and allows you to quickly join in and participate in the discussions.
6. Practice makes perfect.
Like most things, being consistent and participating in Twitter chats will help you feel more comfortable and confident as the time passes. We’re certain you’ll find your groove the more you join in on chats! Below, you can find a handy list of a few of my favorite chats.
Related: 5 Ways to Look and Feel More Confident
#CreateLounge
Host: @kayla_hollatz
When: Wednesdays at 7 PM Central Us Time
Join this chat if: you’re a creative blogger or entrepreneur looking for a supportive community to share your passion projects with. #CreateLounge covers blogging, branding, social media, and much, much more.
#BlogChat
Host: @MackCollier
When: Sundays at 8PM Central US Time
Join this chat if: you want to improve your blogging results. This chat is particularly informative because co-hosts frequently join in and share their vast knowledge on popular blog topics and questions. #BlogChat is also a popular chat that streams at live events.
#ElleChat
Host: @LaurenElizHook
When: Thursdays at 7PM Central US Time
Join this chat if: you’re a blogger, graphic designer, or freelancer. If you already love all things Elle & Company, you will love this chat packed with tips and knowledge on blogging and business strategies to help you grow.
#PinChat
Host: @Tribe2point0
When: Wednesdays at 9PM Eastern Standard Time
Join this chat if: you want to expand your knowledge on all things Pinterest. This chat covers best Pinterest practices, new uses, and tools to help you use Pinterest to its fullest potential.
#NectarChat (hey, that’s us!)
Host: @NectarCollect
When: Every other Wednesday at 6pm PST
Join this chat if: you’re already an avid TNC follower and love being a part of our community! This chat is geared toward bloggers and creative entrepreneurs who want to stand out, grow their audience, and make connections. Want to be notified by email when the next chat is? You can sign up here!














So much great information! I’ve not been real involved with twitter chats but I am interested in jumping in there! ahh!
Awesome post. I’ve heard of yours and #ellechat, but not the others. Pumped to try them out.
Sarah – http://www.sarahsmirks.com
I’ve never participated in a Twitter chat, but I want to start to. Thank you for an informative and helpful post! #1 and #5 are things that I’ve never even thought of! Thank you also for the chat leads. Now I at least know where to start!
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Sockwun
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Thank you for sharing! I haven’t participated in a Twitter chat before, but these made it sound less scary. (To be honest, Twitter is still a completely strange medium to me, so it’s nice to get tips on where to even start looking.) Thanks again!
These are great tips!
Ha! I never knew such thing existed. Talking about the tweetdeck. When I join twitter chats I’m usually going back and forth to the notifications and the chat page. That’s really hard. Thanks for sharing.
Another cool free option is tweetchat.com. I learned about it from Caitlin over at Little Farm Media. It automatically puts the hashtag at the end of your tweets so you don’t have to worry about it, and buffers the stream so you don’t get totally lost in a huge current of activity!
Thanks for the tips, Vaness!
I’m not gonna lie, while I’ve been on Twitter for foreeeeever, it’s the one social platform that I’ve really kind of ignored. I love the idea of a Twitter chat! Thanks for posting. 🙂
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Allison
http://www.wonderlass.com
i went from not understanding twitter to completely being submersed into it! Love twitter chats! ALways looking 4 more!
I’ve been binging on twitter chats lately, and decided to create one of my own this week #blogchitchat (not totally sure about the name yet). It will be a great way to get to know my audience better as I’m preparing an e-book or course, don’t know which one yet. But I hope this will help. I’ve participated in the Nectar chat couple times and it was super awesome, I recommend it.
I’ve only participated in a few Twitter chats, but TNC’s is definitely my fave! I’ve met so many awesome people and found incredible new blogs to follow. Looking forward to the next one!
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Ahhh this totally made my day! Thank you Catherine, I am really so glad that you enjoy it. <3
Thanks, this is useful!
I never really joined twitter chat, because I am just unsure how it works, therefore this was a helpful post for me.
I will try to join the chat you recommended.
Betty | Inspiremeand
Oh my goodness, TweetDeck is going to be my savor next week. I’d heard of it, but never thought of using it like that. So smart!
xo, Caitlin
And Possibly Dinosaurs
During my first Twitter chat everything was moving really fast, and it felt overwhelming. Then I remembered someone mentioning TweetChat (similar to TweetDeck) and oh boy, it definitely saved me on my first Twitter chat!
I love the idea of keeping a snippet of your intro to copy and paste! I’m definitely going to do this on my next chat!
I’ve been wanting to do a Twitter chat, but I’ve been too nervous. With your tips, I’m thinking of participating in one soon! Thanks 🙂
Woohoo! You totally should, Chelsea. They’re a great way to learn and make lots of friends with similar interests. 🙂
Love these tips! Twitter chats – especially the reeeaaally popular ones – can be so overwhelming to jump into. Using Tweetdeck is the best! Thanks for sharing! xo.
Love Tweetdeck! And great list of chats…I hadn’t heard about the Pinterest one until now, so I’m excited to check that one out!
Ooh I love these tips especially about the introduction and making sure not to multitask, and stay focused on catching up with people online. I love Twitter chats and I cant wait to try out some of the ones you all mentioned that I haven’t tried before! Thanks so much for these tips! 🙂 I absolutely love #NectarChat!
Your posts are always so so useful! Thanks for these!
Jessica these are GREAT tips! Love the tip about Tweetdeck. Geez with hashtags and mentions flying around everywhere it’s easy to get lost! I plan on sharing this on Twitter. Thx!
I’d love to join all of these chats, but they’re all at 1-2am BST haha There’s definitely not enough Twitter chats for creative entrepreneurs in the UK and Europe!
Thanks so much for sharing this! I’ve been playing around with Twitter Parties and trying to figure them out – hadn’t considered Chats. I may look into this.
Thank you for this awesome resource. I wanted to try a twitter chat but didn’t know how to go about it. Cant wait to chat with you next Wednesday!
Yay! Glad you found this helpful, Taish. I look forward to you joining us on Wednesday! 🙂
Im going to be joining a few of these chats this week to get my feet wet. Can I use Hootsuite instead of Tweetdeck? They appear to be the same thing …
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Yes, they both work in the same way! Have fun on Twitter! 😉
This is perfect as I’m preparing for the #CollegeCoffeeHour with @theyounghopeful tonight! Plus, I never knew about TweetDeck, so thank you for the awesome resources!
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Oh that sounds fun! Thanks for stopping by.
Yay! This gets me excited to get into my first ever Twitter chat! By the way, Melyssa, when I clicked on the button to get notified when your next chat will be, it took me to an error page. Just a heads up!
Thanks so much for the heads up Kristen! Glad to hear that you are excited 🙂
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ahh it’s hard. I tried joining one just now and it was overwhelming and no one liked my tweets LOL
Ah! It can definitely take some getting used to. It’s like trying to go to a party where you don’t know anyone and it can feel so overwhelming. But the more of these parties you attend, the easier it gets to mingle and make connections, right? 🙂
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